Parent Management Training (PMT)

What It Is

Parent Management Training (PMT) is a proven behavioral therapy that helps parents respond more effectively to challenging child behaviors, tantrums, arguing, refusal, or power struggles, that leave everyone drained.

There’s no shortage of parenting advice online: gentle parenting, free-range parenting, eff-it parenting, and everything in between. PMT cuts through that noise by focusing on a few core principles supported by decades of research: structure, consistency, positive attention, and follow-through. These are the ingredients that make some approaches work when they do!

Rather than trying to “fix” kids, PMT focuses on teaching parents how to adjust daily interactions that keep challenging behaviors going. The result is calmer homes, clearer communication, and more positive moments together.

Who it helps?

Every child pushes limits sometimes,  it’s part of normal development. PMT is designed for families where these challenges happen so often or so intensely that they start to disrupt daily life, school, or relationships.

PMT supports parents of children who often:

  • Argue, refuse, or push limits even after clear requests

  • Have frequent tantrums or emotional outbursts that feel hard to manage

  • Struggle with transitions or regulating emotions

  • Show patterns linked to ADHD or Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)/Disruptive Behavior Disorder (DBD)

It’s also helpful for parents who want to:

  • Reduce daily conflict and increase cooperation

  • Build calmer, more predictable routines

  • Feel confident using strategies that actually work

If these patterns appear only occasionally or improve with age and consistency, they’re usually part of typical development. But if conflict feels constant or overwhelming, PMT may offer some support and structure your family wants.

How It Works

PMT is grounded in behavioral learning theory- the idea that changes happen when consequences change. Parents and therapists collaborate to identify what triggers and maintains challenging behaviors. Through coaching, role-play, and at-home practice, parents learn to:

  • Reinforce positive behaviors with attention and praise: what do you want to see more of!

  • Set the stage and build the bridge with small time together letting your child take the lead!

  • Set clear, consistent limits and follow through calmly

  • Use planned ignoring for minor misbehavior

  • Give effective commands that kids can understand and follow

Delivered in 10–20 weekly sessions, individually or in small parent groups by a trained therapist.

Evidence and Effectiveness

Science Snapshot:
Parent Management Training and related behavioral parent programs have been tested in dozens of randomized studies showing large and lasting reductions in children’s disruptive behaviors (Eyberg et al., 2008; Menting et al., 2013). Across studies, about 60–70% of children improve when families complete treatment (Kazdin & Blase, 2011)

PMT principles form the foundation for widely used programs such as:

  • Parent–Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)

  • The Incredible Years

  • Triple P (Positive Parenting Program)

Learn More from Our Member Organizations

  • Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies (ABCT) – Parent training fact sheet

  • APA Division 53: Society of Clinical Child and Adolescent PsychologyEvidence-based treatments for disruptive behavior

  • Society of Clinical Psychology (APA Division 12) – Resources on evidence-based family and parenting interventions

More Trusted Resources

While not a CAAPS member organization, the Child Mind Institute offers clear, evidence-informed guides for parents navigating challenging behavior: childmind.org

In Brief

Parent Management Training gives parents tools; not blame. By changing how adults respond, children’s behavior changes too. Small, science-based shifts in parenting can transform conflict into connection.

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Parent Management Training (PMT)
Science-backed strategies for calmer, more connected parenting.
Learn how structured, evidence-based coaching helps parents reduce conflict, increase cooperation, and support children’s healthy behavior.